Real definition of “Beauty”

What is your definition of beauty? before you continue reading this, I want you to think what is your criteria to say a particular person has beauty. Then, ask yourself, who is the person I know who is beautiful? am I also beautiful?

If you are skinny, you have pointed nose, you have a nice body shape, people will define you as beautiful, this is the reason why girls these days wear a lot of make-ups and do extreme diet just to say their beautiful even though it’s not really them anymore, it’s not who they are anymore, they change themselves to a very different person and they think that is really who they are just to say their beautiful, but guess what? they can’t fool themselves, no matter what you do, you is you and there’s no someone out there who is youer than you.

Even on finding jobs, as you can observe people who have a pretty face can get a job easier, they don’t care how smart or dumb you are, what’s important to them is you’re beautiful. This is one of the reason why many girls intend to fake their faces, having a bunch of plastics surgery just to be beautiful.

As a man, I admit I like girls with beautiful face and have nice body shape, but what really catches my heart is a girl with a beautiful heart for others and lovable person. I don’t care if my girlfriend is the most beautiful person alive, all I want is to be who she really is and who will care for other’s sake.

Imagine if there’s a day where we all wear mask and go to park where we can socialize with others, isn’t it amazing by falling on a person because of their attitude on how they treat people and how they treat you rather than falling to a woman who only cares about herself and her beauty?

For all the girls out there and even men, real beauty is unseen by our naked eye, thus it is seen by how they treat other person, they treat other person with love, care and respect. Always remember that be who you are and you can fool others, but not to yourself, be you, be beautiful on the inside.

Remember: “Real beauty is on the inside, not on the outside”

No matter what happen

Keep on living 🙂



Is love really the powerful thing on earth?

Everyone said that love is the most powerful thing on earth, but sometimes I even ask myself, is really love the most powerful thing on earth? if yes, then why everyone have hunger for money and not hunger for love? Why people intend to be rich than to have many friends who will love them unconditionally?

Money is used to survive since the 1300’s and they earn money by working very hard because they think that the more money they have, the more powerful they are. This kind of thinking was implemented to us even today, even our politicians stole money from their fellowmen just to be rich and powerful, they don’t think on the effect of stealing money from their fellowmen and they don’t care if you earned your money by your hard-work, all they want is to be rich and their love from their heart keeps shrinking and replaced by growing selfishness.

Luckily, some people are not selfish and they’re willing to help others even though they have nothing left. This morning while I was walking down to street, I saw a beggar outside a fast-food chain then suddenly, while I was about to approach the beggar, a man gave her a burger, fries and soda, I was so happy because even though the world has so many problems, even though we work very hard to earn money, we are still able to help people who needs our help. Do you know why rich people from poor family intend to help others? Because they know how it felt to be poor and it was very hard, so they don’t want others to feel it.

Money can be used as a good thing and a bad thing, you can use money to help others who are in need and to help someone surpass their problems. Money can be a bad thing if you are self-centered, you don’t care about about others who needs your help, being luxurious is not a bad thing because you can use it to paid yourself to your hard word, but too much being luxurious is bad because someone out there is starving and doesn’t have home, instead help them.

As a youth, I’m not writing on my blog to earn lots of money, my purpose is to wake people up on what’s happening to the world and they must fight back to their selfishness to make this world better. For me, money isn’t the most powerful thing, we are the most powerful thing because we can take controls on everything and we can do anything we want, but love is the most powerful force on the universe because love can make us more close to each other’s heart and love can prevent rivalry, competitions between one another and even wars. Please stand up and make everything better




Heartbreaks & Second Chances

Heartbreaks is the worst feeling in the world, heartbreaks usually takes place on a couple. When you felt heartbreak you feel like you’re shattering like a porcelain glass who used to be very perfect that no one can even barely hold it. Why does heartbreak occurs to everyone?

As a youth, I want to start off my first blog with a very common, yet astonishing topic, which is about heartbreaks. Even though I’m still young, heartbreaks usually happen to me and those was so painful, I don’t know why it usually happen to me, all I know is it’s because I let a person enter my life and let her use me and let her lead my life until I have nothing left and suddenly she’ll leave me like every other person who enters my life. Will I be dumber if I let her enter my life after all the pains? What if I really love her? Can another chance make everything alright?

Your heart is like a house full of appliances, decorations and ornaments, but one day while you we’re sleeping you forgot to close the door and a burglar with tattered shirt enters your house, you woke up and the burglar said “Oh my precious lady, I’m here because I want to clean your house, go back to sleep you’ll not be stressed out” (I know that sounds so dumb, but if you look at the bigger picture, someone out there can make us fall through their precious words and that’s why you sleep again because you thought the that person won’t hurt you). The moment you woke up, everything was gone, and the burglar left you nothing, one day while you we’re busy decorating your broken house someone knocks at your door, the moment you open the door you saw the burglar wearing fancy clothes saying “I’m sorry for what I’ve done, please let me in once again to recover your house”. Are you that kind of person who will let the person enter your heart again, or are you the one who will slam the door and heal all the wounds that was caused by the person who’s saying she wants to make everything alright?

As we saw in some movies, it is usually ended with a happy ending, since we we’re kids we usually think that every relationships ends up by getting married. As I grow older, I kept realizing that in relationship, there’s a time where you and your partner have to separate because of several reasons. While you we’re dealing with heartbreak, you’re learning something from it, and that was being strong and invincible.

Slamming the door to a person who hurts you badly is not always the answer, if you see his/her sincerity to you, give him/her a second chance but this time don’t give what you all have, test him how sorry he/she was. If a person really loves you, they will accept all the consequences they have to feel.